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No Room At The Wedding For a Rapture

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Yesterday at our Oikos gathering, Shaun Wissman did an excellent job teaching/demonstrating aspects of the covenant between God and his followers, through the Bridal paradigm and wedding imagery.  Many of Jesus’ parables regarding His return and the end of the age also are often intertwined with this wedding ceremony between Himself and His Bride, the Church at the end of the ages.

I’ve said repeatedly on my blog and in conversation to close friends, that for me the book of Revelation is like the sequel to Song of Solomon and I don’t read it through a grid or lens of destruction and ‘end of the world’, but of a Bridegroom coming back and getting His Bride and finally having their wedding ceremony.  Earthly wedding ceremonies and marriage are a natural reflection of this spiritual reality.

Please allow me to share my flow of thought.  Remember in Matthew 25 the parable of the 10 virgins, five of whom had enough oil for their lamps, while the other five were foolish and didn’t have enough;

It was the Jewish custom for the groom’s father to have worked with the family of the bride details concerning the wedding arrangement, including the date of the wedding ceremony. Oftentimes women were betrothed in their teenage years, and the groom would go to his father’s house and build a place for himself and his bride to live, attached to his father’s house. Jesus said

“And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also.” (John 14:3)

The Bridegroom would not know when the day was, but sometime after building the house, the father would then tell “go, it’s time.”

At that time, the groom and his friends would leave his home and proceed to the home of the bride, where the marriage ceremony was conducted, often at night. Usually a servant was sent first some time ahead of the bridegroom, to ‘pave the way’ and awaken the bride and the virgins. Since the servant would not know which one was the bride, she would sleep in her wedding dress since the wedding ceremony would customarily be at night. After this the entire wedding party returned to the groom’s home for a celebratory feast. This engagement process could last any number of months, possibly a year or more if the bridegroom was preparing their place in a far distance away to travel to, and return from.

From my post Keep The Pure Fire Burning

There is no secret snatching away of the Bride or some kind of “double come back” for her where he comes back once and then again some time frame later like a pre-tribulation rapture would espouse, even though I’ve heard some of the ways pre-tribbers explain this passage to somehow fit their grid.

Furthermore, if it’s true that in ancient Jewish wedding ceremonies, they’d consummate the marriage on the first day and then celebrate for another seven more days.  To this, some of my pre-tribulation rapture adherents would compare this to the seven years of tribulation that takes place on the earth while the Bride is in her wedding celebration, having followed the ‘consummation’ between them.  For many of those that hold the Pre-Tribulation rapture view, the majority consensus from what I’ve seen and read is that the great marriage feast of the Lamb (Jesus) will take place during the tribulation.

As my friend David Hepting wrote in a post on Fire Press some time ago;

Many also believe that people can still become Christians on the earth during that time. If all Christians are a part of the Church who is the Bride of Christ, then isn’t that kind of weird that His whole bride won’t even be there for the wedding?

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I could still stand to be corrected about the views of those that hold the pre-trib rapture but all who I have talked to hold to the viewpoint that the wedding feast is during the tribulation. If the Bride of Christ is to be pure and spotless without blemish, I have a feeling that that means that she is all there.

From his post The Bride That Wasn’t All There

With the huge harvest the book of Revelation documents will come out of the Tribulation, Hepting makes a good and quirky point that it will be quite a wedding celebration if not all of the Bride will be there.

These are just some thoughts for pondering today.

Further Reading & More Reasons There’s No Rapture:

The Wedding at Cana: Why Did Jesus REALLY Make the Wine?
Four Reasons Why The Pre-Trib Rapture is a Myth
Does The Old Testament Mention The Rapture?
Are We Living In The Last Days?
Are We Living In The Laodicean Church Age?

Related Topics: end times, Bridal Paradigm, fire of God, enjoying God

Strong Behind the Veil of our Thought Life

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If you haven’t had a chance to listen to the latest Fire On Your Head podcast I did with Dave Edwards, I highly recommend doing so.  It’s not necessary before proceeding, but this post is basically a write-up or a follow up to some of the stuff I got spontaneously discussing with Dave when we were discussing renewed or repentant thinking.

Our Scripture passage, to start with, is found in Song of Solomon 4:3, which states

Your cheeks are like halves of a pomegranate behind your veil.

In Scripture, the temples–or cheeks, depending on the translation you’re reading from–represent the seat of man’s thoughts.  In describing the temples as a sliced pomegranate, we see that the thoughts of the Bride are opened and exposed before the Bridegroom, God.  In Jewish culture of that time, women would typically have their face veiled in public, and only their husbands could see their face at home.  Letting the man see their face was personal, therefore, notice that the temples are veiled from the outward world, but in this description they are open and laid bare before the Lord.  “Behind the veil” speaks of the Bride’s humility, as well as her secret life in God.  Her veil also represents her submission to her Lover.

The Psalms repeatedly describe writers who desire to have their inner lives searched and found to be acceptable and pure before the Lord (see Psalm 19:14, and 139:23-24 for a few examples).  The seeds of a pomegranate are crystal seeds, tinged with red.  In describing her face, her inner private most personal thoughts and appearance like this, Solomon is saying the thoughts of the Bride have been cleansed and made purified.  Her thoughts are pure and red as crystal, allowing the light of God and His wisdom to shine through them.  Her thoughts have been redeemed, as signified by the color red used in this description, signifying redemption, similar to the way the blood of Jesus has redeemed us and made us pure.

Becoming Strong Pillars in the Temple of God

As I mentioned previously1, Solomon was an incredibly brilliant man and knew what he was doing when he wrote this, and when he designed his temple:

The capitals were on the two pillars and also above the rounded projection which was beside the latticework. There were two hundred pomegranates in two rows all around, and so with the other capital. (1 Kings 7:20, emphasis mine)

I find it very fascinating that he had designed the pillars in his temple in a fashion that involved latticework resembling this fruit hanging from it, and we can obviously glean from this the idea of pure and exposed thoughts.  But what other practical significance can this hold for us as believers?

I believe the answer is found in the following;

if I delay, you may know how one ought to behave in the household of God, which is the church of the living God, a pillar and buttress of the truth. (1 Tim 3:15)

The one who conquers, I will make him a pillar in the temple of my God.  (Revelation 3:12a)

It should be noted then that the ones who are overcomers–whose thoughts have been made pure by the blood of the Lamb, Christ Jesus–who know how they ought to behave in the house of God, are the ones who are made pillars in the temple of God, the Body of Christ.  I find it interesting to also note how the very image of a pillar in Solomon’s temple involves each one of them bearing fruit, so to speak–in terms of having the two hundred of them woven into the framework towards the top.  Each of us are members of the Body of Christ and are expected to bear fruit of the Holy Spirit in our lives (see Gal 5:16-24).  If we’re not in intimate fellowship with Christ, we won’t produce the corresponding fruit.  It’s as simple as that.

Those Who Hear the Voice of God

Also of significance is the crown of lilies that tops it as described a few verses later in 1 Kings 7 verses 19 and 22.

Consider then what Solomon says in chapter 5 verse 13 of his song:

His lips are lilies, dripping liquid myrrh.

Myrrh is one of the most fragrant perfumes and casts an intoxicating odor.  One characteristic of a lily is that it has a very sweet smell.  The lips tend to represent speech or words that proceed from the mouth.  As believers, we don’t live on bread alone but from every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God (Matt 4:4).   Jesus’ words are sweet, intoxicating and powerful; and Solomon had this depth of revelation when writing this, knowing fully well how he designed the temple to have this ‘crown’ of lilies above the fruit-like latticework.

Man is the crowning glory of God’s handiwork, and will be adorned with the words of the Lord–worked into their spirits will be the comfortable familiarity that comes through intimacy with God, of that still small voice, penetrating our spirits.2 Overcomers are ones that are intimate with the Lord and who know their God.  Jesus, our Bridegroom King and Shepherd has sheep who follow him, and his sheep know his voice (John 10:27).

Jesus also said in Matthew 6:28-29 that even King Solomon was not arrayed like the lily when he was in all his glory.  In his case, his glory was his wisdom and understanding.  Even though he was the wisest man who ever lived, we now have Jesus Christ Himself who is the source of all wisdom and understanding, above and certainly beyond any wisdom the man Solomon ever had or wrote from.

I also believe his lips speaks of the power of His words; it can refer to the affirmations of His heart as written about in the Scriptures, as well as the words spoken directly to our hearts by the inner witness of the Holy Spirit. Jesus, as our Bridegroom, has the ability to speak lovingly and precisely to the needs of our hearts (see Psalm 45:2; John 6:63, 7:46).  The phrase about his lips “dripping liquid myrrh” signifies that Jesus’ lips speak of His words which are sweet and pure like lilies. They contain myrrh which refers to exhortations to embrace death to self.   His words are motivated by the incredible sacrificial love that He has for us, His Bride.  Everything Jesus says to us comes from a heart of kindness.  Even when He corrects us, we need to see it as coming from a heart of a sacrificial love.  Loving correction is never to be taken as rejection.

I hope some of these brief insights into a few of the phrases used in this song can develop a hunger for you to become someone whose intimacy with Christ makes you into a strong pillar producing fruit for others in the Body of Christ and resulting expressing the voice of God as an overcomer.

If you haven’t had a chance to listen to the aforementioned podcast, What Is Renewed Thinking?, you can do so here:

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  1. In my post, Why the Song of Solomon Fascinates Me []
  2. I got this from the study I previously mentioned, Bible Studies for the Preparation of the Bride: A Study of the Song of Solomon, Bob & Rose Weiner, p.97 []

Why The Song of Solomon Fascinates Me

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Recently I got up to preach at Centro de Fuego/The Fire Center (our church here in Lima, Peru), and people snickered and made jokes when I told them to turn in their Bibles to the Song of Solomon.  Remarks like “of course” were heard across the room, and jokes about how people were sarcastically telling me shocked because I “hardly ever go there”.  However, I DO preach and teach from all manners of topics found in the Scriptures, but this one book is definitely my favorite.  I feel like it’s a key that unlocks a lot of the rest of the Scriptures, at least through the paradigm of God’s love.

I’ve been interested in this particular book of the Old Testament for nearly 9 years to date.  I’ve gone through stages or waves where I got into studying this book really thoroughly for weeks at a time, and then my interest would wane.  The first time I really started to see and have my eyes opened to the idea that there was more to this book than imagery and symbolism, was in my first semester of Bible school in Pensacola, Florida.  One of my mentors, S.J. Hill was teaching an entire course on the book that lasted one semester.  It drove me nuts that this book of only 8 chapters could have enough material that he could teach for a whole 16 weeks or so on it. 1

Since it was a second year class and I was only in my first year, I decided to grab a Matthew Henry commentary, and go through the book and look up every reference to other words in the Scripture that were referenced.  In almost no time at all, my New King James translation of the Bible had markings all over the margin–so much so, there was almost no white left.  S.J. left after my first semester, so I never wound up getting to have his class, but someone lent me a 20 session tape series Mike Bickle did on the subject, and those really rocked my world2.  A couple of years later, I got fascinated with it again, and re-read it every day for 30 days in the New International Version, and towards the end of that month, felt like I was overflowing with divine insight and revelation that I didn’t need to get from a commentary or scholar. 3

I personally believe this song to be a demonstration of practical realities of John 17:26:

I made known to them your name, and I will continue to make it known, that the love with which you have loved me may be in them, and I in them.

King Solomon’s Life and Rule

Copyright Site The Rev. Brendan Powell Smith, http://www.thebricktestament.com/king_solomon/

That being said, I look at Solomon’s life.  If we go to the first book of Kings, we see Solomon begin to reign in Israel after his father David.  He loved the Lord and walked in the statutes of his father (3:3).  In his immaturity, he still offered sacrifices on the high places, but Scriptures state that He loved the Lord.  He even offered 1000 burnt offerings at one time when only one was necessary under the old covenant4.  In Gibeon God appeared to Solomon in a dream at night (3:5) asking him what He wanted the Lord to give him.  Solomon asked for wisdom, above anything else:

And God said to him, “Because you have asked this, and have not asked for yourself long life or riches or the life of your enemies, but have asked for yourself understanding to discern what is right, behold, I now do according to your word. Behold, I give you a wise and discerning mind, so that none like you has been before you and none like you shall arise after you.

And God gave Solomon wisdom and understanding beyond measure, and breadth of mind like the sand on the seashore, so that Solomon’s wisdom surpassed the wisdom of all the people of the east and all the wisdom of Egypt. For he was wiser than all other men, wiser than Ethan the Ezrahite, and Heman, Calcol, and Darda, the sons of Mahol, and his fame was in all the surrounding nations. (1 Kings 3:11-12, 4:29-31, ESV, emphasis mine)

If this man was granted such wisdom and discernment, then obviously the things he wrote ought to be taken seriously and studied and given careful consideration.  Most Christians spend time memorizing verses out of the book of Proverbs, but yet the pages of the Song of Solomon are still stuck together in their Bible like the day when they first bought their Bibles.  Many don’t want to ‘go there’ and delve deep into the things about the heart of God through the Bridal paradigm this particular book helps unlock. We ought to listen to what Solomon obtained in intimacy and revelation with the Lord, don’t you think?!  Observe what the following verses state;

He also spoke 3,000 proverbs, and his songs were 1,005. He spoke of trees, from the cedar that is in Lebanon to the hyssop that grows out of the wall. He spoke also of beasts, and of birds, and of reptiles, and of fish. And people of all nations came to hear the wisdom of Solomon, and from all the kings of the earth, who had heard of his wisdom. (1 Kings 4:32-34, emphasis mine)

Most people are well aware that he wrote most of the proverbs in the middle of our Bible.  But this man–the richest and wisest man who ever lived, wrote 1004 other songs as well–of which we know almost nothing about other than this one verse here merely mentions them in passing.

A Masterpiece

This song is called the “Song of Songs” in the same manner that the most holy place in the tabernacle is called the Holy of Holies, or the same way that Jesus is the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. God saw to it that this one made it into Scripture canon, because I’m convinced it’s a key to something about the heart of God.

In their study Bible Studies for the Preparation of the Bride: A Study of the Song of Solomon, Bob & Rose Weiner point out the following:

In contrast, the preceding book, Ecclesiastes, is an exposition of the vanity of vanities.  In Ecclesiastes we find that all things under the sun are sought for — the wrong things in the wrong way.  In the Song we find that one thing is pursued; a relationship with the King, which in its consummation, tells us that satisfaction cannot be obtained through knowledge alone.  The Song speaks of rest from wandering and tells us that man can reach satisfaction only through love. 5

Other Writers’ Insight

The Apostle John had a close relationship with Jesus that nobody else had.  He was in the inner three, one of the ones who was with Jesus on the mount of transfiguration, and the only one of Jesus’ disciples who witnessed his crucifixion.  John also lived the longest out of all of them and is said to have died a natural death, as opposed to a martyr’s death like the rest did.  Jesus, at the cross, also gave him the charge of taking care of His mother after he left.  John repeatedly referred to himself as the one Jesus loved, and made mention of things like how he was laying his head on Jesus’ chest at the last supper.  Almost no other human being who lived during the time of Jesus can say the same things as John does in his writings.  His gospel is even different than the other three listed in our Scripture canon, and contain details the others don’t.  John is also the one Jesus revealed Himself to later in his life, and John wrote about it in what is properly known as The Revelation of Jesus.

If you read the Song of Solomon and then start reading Revelation through a lens of one who knew Jesus intimately, and not as  a doom and gloom apocalypse book, you will immediately notice similarities and mirroring symbolism.  For example, notice Solomon’s description of ten characteristics of the Bridegroom in chapter five of the song; radiant and ruddy (v. 10) compared with John’s description of how Jesus’ shone like the sun when He appeared to him (Rev 1:12-18, 4:2-3); the living one (v. 10) compared with John’s description of the Ancient of Days (Rev 1:3-18, and see John 8:56-58) and the Alpha and Omega, beginning and end (Rev 1:8); distinguished among ten thousand (v. 10), John mentions Jesus coming back with ten thousand of his holy ones (Rev 19:12) and found upon his head is a crown with many diadems and a name only He knows.  Compare this with how in the Song, the maiden described the Bridegroom’s head with finest gold (v 11).  These are but just a few descriptions found in common between the two books. I’m sure you’ll find more as you dive into this for yourself.  John also understood, and wrote about things from the Bridal perspective and understood the significance of many of Jesus’ teachings and miracles. 6

Charles Finney, one of the greatest revivalists in the last few hundred years, also described the secret to his prayer life as that of having a tremendous appreciation and revelation of the Lord’s love and desire for him, through an understanding of the Song.  Even in his testimony, Finney understood that God longingly pursued him7  Of the Song he said:

The language of the Song of Solomon was as natural to me as my breath. I thought I could understand well the state of mind he was in when he wrote that song; and concluded then, as I have ever thought since, that that song was written after he had been reclaimed from his great backsliding. 8

Finney went on to say later in his biography that he believed very few people encountered such an intimacy with God like he was experiencing and yet this was a man so used by God to spread revival and lead many souls to Christ.  Dare I say that we cannot have corporate revival if we don’t have personal revival?9

So these are just a few reasons that I take this book seriously and get excited about it more than any other book in Scripture canon, and why I desire to stir up as many people as possible into it as well–to start a revolution of people fascinated with God and who spend time worshiping and seeking him because they understand His delight in them, and therefore seek to delight in Him back.

That’s where I’ll end this for now.  I’ve got some stuff burning in me that I’ve been trying to write out for my new blog, and maybe if I feel the need to, I’ll share them on Fire On Your Head for a larger readership, but at least in the weeks and months to come I can refer back to this post for why I’m going on a journey deeper into this book and writing about it.

What do you like about the Song, or what is your favorite book you’re passionate about in the Bible?

  1. For his notebook on it, click here. To hear the class online streaming for free, visit here. []
  2. Click here http://mikebickle.org/resources/series/song-of-songs for a more recent version of those same teachings []
  3. Such as this insight into chapter 2:14-15 of the Song []
  4. See my article on Fire On Your Head called “Solomon, The Cheerful Giver“ []
  5. Bible Studies for the Preparation of the Bride: A Study of the Song of Solomon, Bob & Rose Weiner, p11 []
  6. See The Wedding At Cana: Why Did Jesus Really Turn the Water Into Wine? and More Reflections on the Water Turned to Wine []
  7. Finney On Revival” by V. Raymond Edman, p.34-35 []
  8. Ibid, p. 54-55 []
  9. For more about this, see a previous post I wrote about Finney here called Finney On Intimacy With God []
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